Annoyed,another member here questioned my perceptions of abusive behaviour towards me because I had been mentally ill.I hate people who deny my perceptions.I posted it in survivors of abuse under trauma memories,I mean I was looking for support not to be invalidated.I hate people like that that put the boot in and kick you when you are down.She reckons she got things wrong and her perceptions were off cos she was mentally ill,so I must have been the same.Err you and I are not the same love,just cos that happened in your case doesn't mean it applies to me.This woman has made me so annoyed and made me feel 10 times worse.I have put the stupid woman on my ignore list,invalidating my experiences and denying my perceptions is a 100% deal breaker for me.