Its kind of on a continuum, or bell curve isnt it?

Romantic issues subforum is at one end, where the relationship is pretty exclusively one on one romantic, and now we are, or soon i hope we will be, sleeping together. Its not about doing therapy per se? Its more about eroticized attachment, past or present.

In therapy trauma / abuse, the posts are usually about how therapy is as a WHOLE, as a SYSTEM, not so much about individual cases. Its not me against ONE therapist, its me against ALL, or two, or however many therapists, and im never going to therapy again. On this website, trauma is not about a CURRENT client - therapist situation, its usually a past one.

Also, people who have been traumatized by past experiences and who dont wish to seek further therapy?

Then there is present therapy, the middle of the bell curve. Of course, where the dividing lines are up for debate. At the extreme ends, its clearer.