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Old Feb 19, 2019, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted by PurpleMirrors1 View Post
I think the major reason for keeping the abuse/trauma threads separate is not to undermine and cast unnecessary doubt on helpful therapeutic relationships - which are frequently people’s lifelines. I think the risk of keeping triggering material intertwined with questions and positive experiences outweighs philosophical preference to keep as-is. In instances where someone needs support for a crisis like abandonment, nothing would prevent cross-posting. Despite my negative experience I continue to see therapy as beneficial to most and try hard not to taint healthy experiences and perceptions.

Also, I think separating out a sub forum would discourage voyeuristic comments or attempts to minimize victims’ experiences. Therapy damage is a loaded topic and as someone who has been harmed, I would prefer quality support from those that understand and can relate vs random comments from the masses assessing my resiliency and ability/inability to move on.
Thinking about what Scarlet said....People posting about erotic transference in the main forum are often moved to the romantic forum (even though most seem to have nothing to do with romantic feelings)-so how would that work in cases where someone is or was abused and taken out of the larger group to the forum 'above'? Might that not be triggering to the individual in need of support whose post is moved to a more obscure forum? How is it the triggers of some outweigh the triggers of others?
Thanks for this!
koru_kiwi, Out There