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Originally Posted by octoberful
Thinking about what Scarlet said....People posting about erotic transference in the main forum are often moved to the romantic forum (even though most seem to have nothing to do with romantic feelings)-so how would that work in cases where someone is or was abused and taken out of the larger group to the forum 'above'? Might that not be triggering to the individual in need of support whose post is moved to a more obscure forum? How is it the triggers of some outweigh the triggers of others?
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Anything with abuse or trauma in the title - or posts made especially for that topic - get bumped if flagged by members as triggering.
The rest stay put.
I feel like people are generally good about using the romantic forum for its intended purpose. I don’t agree with moving posts unless they are obviously in the wrong place. Occasionally I see off-topic threads that are in the grey zone and they usually just phase out.
People should post where they feel comfortable posting lMO. It’s nice to have the option.