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Originally Posted by saidso
Hey Lonely Chemist,
I think you said that you are studying for exams - so yeah that's a priority.
Afterwards when you get some rest and some spring sunshine eventually comes your way perhaps the burial ground will push up some flowers...
or a bush...
or a tree...
or an earthquake, or underground spring would be nice for summer time.
Take care of you and good luck with passing those important exams!
P.S. there is a third option which is hold the emotions in a bigger space. i always imagine looking down from the stars when i feel overwhelmed by someone's behaviour, but there are other techniques breathe, relax & so on. neglectful parenting forces kids to hold on tight to their emotions, and doesn't give an example of holding emotions with space and kindness.
starry thoughts to a star!
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Of course! It's important to bury those emotions and thoughts, but keep the best version of the person you love in your heart. Cherish good moments, the smiles and all the joy he gave to you. But don't just make obvious you love that person. Actually I am in the same situation as I described. I love someone but they don't love me back. So although I'll stay objective, I'll keep the best version of them in my heart. Like a locket.
Thank you saidso. I'll definitely try my best.
That's a very nice technique. As I said, if everyone follows the scientific method and follows the path which is best for them, we'll have a better world...