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Old Feb 19, 2019, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Topiarysurvivor View Post
Yes! I totally avoided anything she taught me for a long time. Her Gaslighting and multiple untruths made it hard to sort out things she taught me as part of grooming me for the future from thoughts and skills which can be useful. When the person you see as the safest individual in your life becomes the most harmful it is hard to know what to trust.
This is well said. Absolutely true. It sucks when you love and trust someone enough that you become stuck in trauma bonds and Stockholm syndrome. Hurts so much when it happens and the you come to the realization that the only way to heal is to go no contact with that person.

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