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Old Feb 20, 2019, 12:17 AM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
I see both sides. On the one hand, I am triggered by the negative polarized views that seem to be common with people who have experienced therapy trauma. However, I also see how separating therapy trauma into a sub-forum could be unhelpful. In my personal case, I'm so grateful that the forums weren't separated when my ex-T abandoned me. I needed all the support I could get, and I don't think I would have survived with out such support. If the forums were separated and I posted in therapy trauma forum (which actually they did have their own group at one point), I probably wouldn't have been encouraged to try therapy again which is the very thing that helped heal me. Maybe that's one of the reasons I can understand both sides?
ScarletPimpernel,

I love your logical reasoning here. I agree with you. I don't think the forums should be separate. The other part is that opinions matter. The more feedback we can get from a thread, the more helpful it will be for ourselves and others. The amount of people who see the Psychotherapy section is quite large, if we made a smaller sub-section for people who have experienced abuse within therapy, that number would dwindle quite considerably and as a result, we may not get the support we need.

I agree with your logic and I think there should NOT be a mandatory subsection for therapy abuse. I believe it should be in the same thread, however, if someone wants to make a subsection thread, it is their choice.

Thanks,
HD7970ghz
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