Had a really unnecessary fight last week. My boyfriend opened up about his past relationships and I realized what happened during our fight was a trigger for him, and made him feel unsafe. He has done a 360 where most of his energy is on himself and we see eachother basically once a week now on the weekend...i have agreed to change my behavior but I’m disappointed in myself for losing control of my emotions and right now our relationship isn’t the same. He has been under a lot of stress lately and I didn’t make things better for him. I want things to get better so we can be close again