Sounds like you have such a wonderful and caring T. I think it is sweet of her asking what you need. Just knowing is half the battle don't ya think?

My T today said the "our special relationship" and I swear I almost melted because I see it that way too, but for him to say it. well brings tears to my eyes.

Sorry you are grieving the loss of your special someone, I am too, and it has been 6 mo. It does get easier, but is sucks in the meantime. Take care.