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Originally Posted by Gymgirl71
Had a really unnecessary fight last week. My boyfriend opened up about his past relationships and I realized what happened during our fight was a trigger for him, and made him feel unsafe.
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Are you able to say kinda what happened here?
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He has done a 360 where most of his energy is on himself and we see eachother basically once a week now on the weekend..
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Because of this fight or is this an in general thing?
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.i have agreed to change my behavior but I’m disappointed in myself for losing control of my emotions and right now our relationship isn’t the same. He has been under a lot of stress lately and I didn’t make things better for him. I want things to get better so we can be close again
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Since I do not know what the fight was about its hard to give my precise opinion but it seems like you are taking a lot of blame for whatever happened and I am not so sure you have to.
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