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Old Feb 20, 2019, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
You said there werent any classes. Luv said there were. I suggested dbt. You are not interested in discussions. You just shoot everything down. How is that a discussion? Its really boring for the person getting shot down at every turn. So thanks but no, thanks.
I'm sorry that you are not interested. Again, though, the written record speaks for itself. This is what I said:

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Many or most of us participating on PsychCentral have a history of trauma and/or mental health issues, and experience and knowledge about how to discuss differing opinions -- and disrespecting certain opinions, even -- without disrespecting others is something I know that I have lacked. There really aren't any classes anywhere about that, which I have found.
The classes Luvyrself referred to were not about the topic I had described, in the way that I understood what I had described. Undoubtedly Luvyrself understood it differently, from within her perspective and experience.

Nevertheless, when she responded to my questions with a contradiction of an assertion that I had made -- with the qualifier "which I have found", it felt like a slap in the face. Could I have taken a step back, analyzed it this way at the time, and gone forward? Perhaps. Why didn't I do that? All questions that I think could be up for discussion, if anybody was interested in such a discussion.
Thanks for this!
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