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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Unfortunately, this was not over a movie. This was over differences in opinion on cheating. If his viewpoint is that being with another woman in bed is not cheating, then what would stop him from doing so himself?
I completely understand your upset....
You two have some things to discuss for certain -- what you define as "cheating" and would he ever go down that path.
It's surprising it's the first time it's come up though?
And I'm terribly sorry that it got so bad he walked out. I hope he comes to his senses and returns. ((((hugs)))))
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Yeah, he claims if you’re not attracted to that person (which the man in the show was) and you don’t have any feelings for that person (even if the other person has feelings for you) that it’s not cheating. He thinks that by me getting upset and asking “well then would you think that would be appropriate for you to do in our marriage?” That I was insinuating he would cheat on me. I really just want him to come back so that I can try to calmly discuss this with him but he said he is done with me 😢