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Originally Posted by Doglover6335
Yeah, he claims if you’re not attracted to that person (which the man in the show was) and you don’t have any feelings for that person (even if the other person has feelings for you) that it’s not cheating. He thinks that by me getting upset and asking “well then would you think that would be appropriate for you to do in our marriage?” That I was insinuating he would cheat on me. I really just want him to come back so that I can try to calmly discuss this with him but he said he is done with me 😢
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What he said makes no sense... the two ppl in the movie were in bed together. So he thinks it's OK to be in bed with another woman IF he's not attracted to her and doesn't have feelings for her? It's still not Ok, in my opinion. Why go there? And trust me, the man is always attracted to sex, even if she's not attractive.
Yes, you need to get to the bottom of this with him, and if he returns.
Why do you think he cannot deal with you anymore? What else has happened? Do you fight a lot?