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Old Feb 20, 2019, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Doglover6335 View Post
I have a tendency to get overwhelmed and cry a lot, and he says he can’t stand it anymore and that it’s basically abuse what I’m doing to him. I never ever saw it that way, I’m just a really sensitive person and I’m really trying to do better
Walking out in the middle of an argument is a form of abuse too. So, as is so often the case in these types of situations, there's plenty of blame to go around. Hopefully this is a temporary flare-up... the kind of thing every married couple goes through from time-to-time.

You mentioned the two of you have only been married a month. It takes time for newlyweds to get to know each other & to figure out how to be a couple. And it takes an ocean liner's worth of compassion & forgiveness to keep a marriage going over the years. The two of you are just getting started. Hopefully your hubby will calm down & see that you each have things to work on.
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