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Originally Posted by golden_eve
What he said makes no sense... the two ppl in the movie were in bed together. So he thinks it's OK to be in bed with another woman IF he's not attracted to her and doesn't have feelings for her? It's still not Ok, in my opinion. Why go there? And trust me, the man is always attracted to sex, even if she's not attractive.
Yes, you need to get to the bottom of this with him, and if he returns.
Why do you think he cannot deal with you anymore? What else has happened? Do you fight a lot?
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I don’t understand it either, but apparently he has different standards than me about these kinds of things. I never knew that so I obviously freaked out a bit and started crying cause it’s a big thing to disagree on.
We fight quite a bit. It usually starts with him saying something that hurts my feelings, and ends with me getting upset and crying which he says is a major overreaction that he can’t deal with anymore. He told me last night he’s going to live with his parents because I’ve driven him away. I’m so lost. I’m in therapy and he knows this, I’m really trying to be better but he says he can’t wait around to see me get better.