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Originally Posted by healingme4me
One month into your marriage, no less. It does sound heartbreaking.
Are you able to support yourself solo in your marital home? Seems a bit brash on his part while you are all supposed to be in the honeymoon phase 
What makes him so goshdarn special that you'd even want him back?
The walking out seems like it's a means to groom you to being subservient to him as opposed to being an equal partner. With him purposefully goading you into an emotional reaction by saying mean things knowingly hurting your feelings.
How long were you together before he proposed to you and asked to spend the rest of his life with you? |
No, I’m not able to support myself. I only have a part-time job and we share a car. I thought it was an extreme reaction too and it really seems like it’s to punish me. We have been together for three years, he proposed in September of last year.
So, he said he is staying at our house until Monday which is his last work day of the week, and that if I can prove to him that I can do better and not be so overly emotional, that maybe he will stay. Otherwise he is moving in with his parents for good and finding a new job there. I don’t know how to prove anything to him. I’m just kind of going about my business and not saying anything to him cause I don’t know what to say. Any advice on how I can make him see I’m really trying to be a good wife?