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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Can you give examples of what's considered emotional and over the top? You've also mentioned earlier, mean things being said, are there examples of that?
I sometimes feel like perception of what's considered over emotional can be subjective.
Ok, you burst into tears and demanded an explanation about the tv example of what's considered cheating. And he refused to try to understand your point of view and stubbornly declared that what was on tv was innocent and that men and women just innocently share beds as a common occurence.
You expressed that you cannot reach out to family for fear of being shamed. How stinking lonely of a feeling this must all be. With a family that won't be understanding nor supportive on one side and a husband that dismisses your opinions on the other side.  |
I have anxiety, so I often not only burst into tears, but I bawl my eyes out because I’m afraid of losing him. Every argument ends in me crying because he says hurtful things and he says it’s childish. I sometimes get sick to my stomach too and vomit and he finds this pathetic. Do you think this is something unforgivable and that he is right to walk away from me for it? He feels that it’s emotional abuse to expose him to my crying and emotions like this.
You’re right; it is insanely lonely and I don’t know what to do. I feel so pathetic just waiting around, wondering if he will decide to stay with me or not. My family are the kind of people to ridicule you over everything. I know they’d let me stay with them, but I couldn’t deal with that.