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Old Feb 21, 2019, 11:34 AM
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The details of the show are down below. I appreciate devils advocacy at the same time this is about the OPs husband storming off and threatening to go move in with his parents and telling her that she's this that and the other thing. To change or else.
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
OUt of context, it's quite simplistic to say that it is cheating. In a situation where people were forced to stay in the same room and SLEPT in the same bed is not cheating. Cheating is being involved either emotionally or sexually or both with a woman and staying in a hotel room in that case is not the definition of cheating. its the emotional or sexual involvement which wouldn't even require a hotel room to carry out.

Being in the same bed with a woman is indeed, not cheating. In and of itself it's an act of resting. But without all of the other qualifications of cheating being given about the show or movie, it's not automatically cheating to me.
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Originally Posted by Doglover6335 View Post
The problem is that the character in the show had feelings for this woman, was doing it behind his wife’s back, kissed this woman, and watched her as she walked around the room naked and teasing him. He did all of it behind his wife’s back. To me, that is an emotional affair at the very least. My husband did not agree.
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