sorry to insult you, however, that is my experience with men and in my entire life and I am 48. Every male I've known has told me that they would be interested in sex with a woman because she is of the opposite sex.

Please don't try to get into an argument with me over this. This is beside the point and detracts from the main issue the OP is now having.

Seriously, what is your problem? You're a PC chat leader even. Be more mature and adult like than this. Trying to get into an argument? PLEASE. I find your post to be very toxic and off-putting.