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Originally Posted by Doglover6335
I have anxiety, so I often not only burst into tears, but I bawl my eyes out because I’m afraid of losing him. Every argument ends in me crying because he says hurtful things and he says it’s childish. I sometimes get sick to my stomach too and vomit and he finds this pathetic. Do you think this is something unforgivable and that he is right to walk away from me for it? He feels that it’s emotional abuse to expose him to my crying and emotions like this.
You’re right; it is insanely lonely and I don’t know what to do. I feel so pathetic just waiting around, wondering if he will decide to stay with me or not. My family are the kind of people to ridicule you over everything. I know they’d let me stay with them, but I couldn’t deal with that.
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A compassionate husband would know that you are in therapy addressing the visceral reactions to your anxieties. Getting to the point of vomiting from heightened anxiety is rather serious. Not pathetic but serious. It's a physical manifestation of deep emotional pain. I remember my uncle throwing up for hours after my grandfather passed away. I've thrown up before over deep grief. It's actually a normal or not so normal but it's something that can and does happen to others.
Where's the concern and going to the doctor with you? His animosity towards you is concerning.