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Originally Posted by healingme4me
A compassionate husband would know that you are in therapy addressing the visceral reactions to your anxieties. Getting to the point of vomiting from heightened anxiety is rather serious. Not pathetic but serious. It's a physical manifestation of deep emotional pain. I remember my uncle throwing up for hours after my grandfather passed away. I've thrown up before over deep grief. It's actually a normal or not so normal but it's something that can and does happen to others.
Where's the concern and going to the doctor with you? His animosity towards you is concerning.
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He says I started therapy too late, that I should have done it a long time ago and I wouldn’t have lost him. I don’t see how I can go back and time and fix the past, I can only work on myself now. He says that’s all fine and we’ll for me, but he doesn’t have to be here to see me go through it.
Yeah, it really sucks and I hate that anyone has to go through this kind of pain. He hasn’t ever really showed concern about it; only annoyance. The only slight sign of concern he has shown recently was when he said he was leaving last night, he made me promise not to hurt myself and said he would divorce me immediately if I did.