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Originally Posted by golden_eve
It sounds to me like he is putting you down. Pointing out what you're doing "wrong", not supporting you and also making you feel insecure about possible weight gain.
The loving response would be to joke with you about being forgetful, but in a very loving and affectionate way, and to remind you of how beautiful you are at any weight.
His threats are concerning. It seems to me he threatens you when he wants to gain control over YOU and your reactions.
I agree with the above that this is all very concerning. And again, this sounds like emotional abuse to me the more you tell us.
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I am concerned too, I don’t know how I let myself get in the situation and I keep wondering whether I deserve this or not. It’s so hard to think clearly cause all I hear from him is what a crazy person I am. I agree too that he could be much nicer about things, but he said it’s my job to make sure I don’t get offended by words. He doesn’t seem to think words matter.