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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
This is huge. He has already said this. Why stay in a marriage that you have to - be on your best behavior
-control your emotions
-never cry
-always be wrong
-withstand threats of leaving
-contain your opinion
-never be allowed to feel anything
-conform to his ideas of what a good wife is...
I mean maybe its better if he moves in with his parents.
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Originally Posted by Doglover6335
He is close with his mom, but she has always let him get away with talking to her however he wants and doing whatever he wants. I have met his parents, they are nice people.
I talked to his mom today (mostly cause I don’t really have anyone else to talk to) and she is appalled by how he’s acting. She says she thinks he’s just trying to scare me. It’s sure working.
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It could be that his parents are nice people, however, they failed your husband in that they allowed him to get away with talking to them however he wanted to and doing whatever he wanted. They did not do him any favors in preparing him for the "adult world" or having a "healthy" relationship.
Infact, he just assumes that when things don't work out for him that he can run back home and his parents will just allow him to do so.