Hello Dallas Loner: I don't think there is really much of anything in particular I can offer with regard to your concern.

Hopefully there will be other PC members who will have some experiences they can share. However I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.
One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the Men-Focused Support forum. Here's a link:
https://forums.psychcentral.com/men-focused-support/
I hope you find PC to be of benefit.