Thread: Joy and sadness
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Old Feb 21, 2019, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by continuosly blue View Post
It’s a shame , because although we want to spare our children the pain of life, we also deprive them of the joys it offers too. Maybe your child will be the one who finds the cure for cancer ! Maybe your child will help save this world some suffering. Maybe the human race should just die off. It’s a natural instinct to procreate. Why ? So some masochistic god can just watch our suffering ? Who knows. To make a new life though, is an awesome thing.
I remember what I used to say to my mom when we had these rather philosophical discussions about life. I said ,rather angrily, “ you know , I didn’t ask to be born “ ! And she replied : “ Well , who ever did “ ?
How much joy in life there is compared to the pain and suffering? Why would I have children to cure cancer? To perpetuate suffering on the hope of curing cancer, which is a tiny fraction of the total suffering in life? I have suffered a lot in life, and I haven't felt happy. I don't have good memories to cherish. May be I am projecting my life, but this is what I know and see in others. I didn't ask to be born and life was imposed on me, but I can decide not to give birth to others. Maybe I would change my mind if I feel happier and ready to give a good and happy life. I don't know.