You went the next day and they said it was too late to press charges? What kind of law do they hold there?

I'm sorry that all happened. You can always make the police file a report for information purposes. Sorry, I forget the name of it right this second. You should make them do this at least! Will your brother also go with you to make a report? Maybe if the 3 of you make statements, the police will listen.

Stay safe. Write everything down as you notice it, in case he stalks you again etc. Make notes of the previous issues if you haven't already.

Don't be afraid to call the police if you feel afraid and the guy has shown up. That's all you need to tell them on the phone, that this guy has given you problems in the past and you are afraid now?

Carry your cell phone with you. You could take a martial arts class which will give you some real physical defense skills, and boost your confidence. Always make sure you write down or tell someone where you are going and when you plan to be home. Make it a habit that if you are delayed that you call to tell them. You can also make it a point to call once you get to where you are going in the first place, so they know you got there safely.

TC