New relationships are particularly challenging. Relationships are hard anyway but I think the in the beginning there can be a lot of insecurities and miscommunication. I agree with others who have suggested to give him some space and yourself as well. It sounds like you both are feeling a bit worn out from conflict. I hope it works out. It all works itself out one way or another. Hopefully he will be willing to communicate and I think marriage counseling could be a big help.