He is very young, and very selfish and you are also very young yet yourself. My advice is to find yourself and invest in yourself and let this guy go as IMHO he will continue to treat you badly and be selfish with you, you really do deserve better. You need to learn how to be more self sufficient too, it will change the way you see men and you will end up being better able to have a healthier relationship. You married a spoiled child. Don't have a child with this guy either, he will be selfish with you and the children. YOU DESERVE BETTER.