I wonder Doglover if you have ever seen the movie Gaslight with Ingrid Bergman and Charles Boyer? It’s an old one but a classic and presents a situation somewhat similar to yours though perhaps more extreme. You might be able to relate to the woman. ((( Much support and many hugs. There are few situations as excrutiatingly painful as what you are presently enduring. I wish you good healing, whatever happens. ))) ❤️