((Doglover)), I have noticed you started this same thread in different forums. This tells me how frightened you are feeling, how worried you were when he blew up and had this temper tantrum. This means you are suffering, injured and frightened and that means you seriously need to step back and really pay attention to how you are feeling and hurting. You are exhibiting "desperation" and after reading more about what you are experiencing, you should NOT be experiencing this kind of desperation, it's a definite RED FLAG and hopefully with all the advice you have been receiving here and other places, you can now realize that you are in fact in an unhealthy relationship. You made a mistake, it happens and you need to really think about YOUR own mental health and no longer sacrifice that for this clearly childish immature partner that clearly doesn't care to be available for your needs and blows up in a childish tantrum when you ask him to hear your needs. You can't fix this, his parents let him walk all over them too, bad training and may never be something anyone can fix either. This is something this young man will have to WANT to fix himself, and usually that desire doesn't happen until this kind of person hits bottom and ends up finding out he has to grow up, that can take years, if ever in some people.