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Old Feb 21, 2019, 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Doglover6335 View Post
Yeah the problem is that I only work part-time. I work for the county and no one ever leaves since it’s a good job so the chances of full time opening up are slim. And, not even really sure how I’ll get to work now, as we have a shared car that he will most likely take with him if he leaves and I live in the middle of nowhere so no bus or Uber. No money to buy another car. I really don’t know what to do.
Then I recommend that you work two part time jobs or leave that job and find ful time one. If you only work part time what do you do the rest of the day? Do you have family you can ask for help to get on your feet? Can you find roommates? Take a loan? I understand financial struggles but what would you do if you weren’t married? Many women have never been married yet they function and thrive without depending on a man.

Focus on becoming independent and one way to do it as go to a shelter (you can even call them and tell them you have no transportation), tell them you are being mistreated and abused and your husband abandoned you and now you have no place to live as you can’t afford that place you live now. They might suggest resources and assistance.
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Thanks for this!
Doglover6335, Mopey