Ok, and don't sit there looking like you have been waiting for him to let you know how HE is going to have the control either. Find some music to play, look for something you can be busy doing when he walks in. Or put on some music and be looking on the net for jobs or people looking for room mates that have apartments. If he sees you pouting and waiting he will THINK he has control over you, no you KNOW that would be allowing a child to tell you what to do, you have decided not to give that child bully any power over you, not even when he wa wa's and threatens to run home to his MOMMY.