Quote:
Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Ok, and don't sit there looking like you have been waiting for him to let you know how HE is going to have the control either. Find some music to play, look for something you can be busy doing when he walks in. Or put on some music and be looking on the net for jobs or people looking for room mates that have apartments. If he sees you pouting and waiting he will THINK he has control over you, no you KNOW that would be allowing a child to tell you what to do, you have decided not to give that child bully any power over you, not even when he wa wa's and threatens to run home to his MOMMY.
|
I had cleaned the whole house today (I clean when I’m anxious and upset) and he came home and didn’t say a word about it or anything to me. Really makes me see how it doesn’t matter what I do, he won’t ever notice anything but the bad. I was watching a video when he walked in, I said hello, and when he didn’t respond I didn’t say anything else and I’m being silent right back now. There is something just so unnerving about sharing a house with someone that won’t talk to you