I'm thinking about Travelling Lady's point re sexual access. There have been huge differences in sexual expectations since women became able to control procreation.

My point about modding wasn't just mod-related, but about gender-based emotional projections? I am the gender that I was born and I can't change that because it triggers someone's personal history. Gender based emotional projections incapacitate the person projected upon... Still, I get some things are taboo on this site, and produce panic so that no one reads on further.

Thanks anyway for your tact, Travelling Lady!