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Originally Posted by HopefullyLost1211
Space and time first, right? The talk will only go well when you are both calm, ready, and able to stay calm throughout. Perhaps he's in a panic too about the situation and acting out is his way of dealing with his panic?? I don't know him. Just an idea.
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This man keeps threatening to leave her whenever she breaks down because he is mean to her. He stormed out the other night over a movie. He blames her for their problems because she reacts when he become mean. She is not allowed to say "ouch" when he becomes mean, which is abusive. Trying to reason with a bully and an abuser does no good; it's like trying to squeeze blood from a rock.