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Originally Posted by golden_eve
This man keeps threatening to leave her whenever she breaks down because he is mean to her. He stormed out the other night over a movie. He blames her for their problems because she reacts when he become mean. She is not allowed to say "ouch" when he becomes mean, which is abusive. Trying to reason with a bully and an abuser does no good; it's like trying to squeeze blood from a rock.
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I guess I just wonder if maybe I’m abusive too without meaning to be? He says I pick fights a lot and overreact, and I really don’t mean to