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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
Do you mind me asking how old both of you are?
Do you think he he is seeing someone else? What makes you think he will leave you?
I understand how you are feeling. As women, when men "reject" us or just do not seem interested in physical intimacy it is hard for us not to take it personally in part because men are"supposed" to want sex more than us and if you previously had a very active sex life it makes you feel like there is something wrong with you and that you aren't desirable. In my experience.. if he is not complaining about you or not having sex, and he is not cheating on you then it isnt about you. You say you have talked about this with him and he says its not you. You have to take him at his word and not pressure him. I am sure if there is something going on in that department he feels embarrassed about it already. And it isn't about you. What specifically has he said about it?
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I am 26 and he is almost 37. I am 100% sure he isn't cheating on me. We work close to each other, so we ride together. We live together. There is rarely ever a time he isn't with me and he gives me access to his phone anytime I want it. He says that he doesn't understand it either, but he knows it has nothing to do with me. You are right, we are predetermined to think that men are always ready for sex. It is hard to accept that it isn't about me.