Just my two cents. I haven't read all of the comments but your husband sounds abusive and you would be better off without him in your life. My ex had mental issues, and was abusive. He did something very similar to what you described. He was obsessed with the idea I was a pathological liar and freaked over a Facebook post. I had put birthday flowers instead of saying he gave me flowers after a horrible fight where he called the police on me. He stormed out in the middle of dinner saying he doesn't like "liars". He didn't return until hours later drunk and tried to physically drag me out of the house.

The abuse escalated. I finally left.