I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Izzydog2019 Work may be the reason he isn't interested in having any intimacy with you at the moment. Is he looking for another job? Since he hates the current one, I feel like it'd be good for him to look for another one. Does he see a therapist? Maybe that could help. He could learn new ways to cope with his stress. If this situation continues, I'd suggest to try couple counselling if you can. Although it sounds like intimacy is the only major issue you have. But I feel like it's still something important to work on. Intimacy is an important aspect in every relationship. I agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could. Remember that it's not your fault. You're a loving and wonderful person. I'm sure he loves you very much as well. It seems like you have a wonderful relationship with him. You just need to work on this issue, that's all. It won't be easy. It will take time. But it can be done.I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. Please don't give up. I hope things will get better soon for you and your boyfriend. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this