I don’t know if you are familiar with five love languages. Typically whatever makes you feel loved is your love language and that’s how you experience romance. My husband is off today and I work so he buys groceries and does laundry today. That makes me happy and it’s my romance!!! That makes me more excited than flowers that might not even match my decor. And I am very particular about how things look! Flowers are still ok on occasion but what I dislike is cards. What a waste!