I was at a CBT session with my 17 year old with ocd. She was speaking about wanting to feel like she was different, excelling or special in some way. I told her that the biggest gift Jane gave me was telling me;" I hate to tell you my dear but you are wonderfully normal. Jane taught me that my feelings were okay and I wish that for my daughter. And then I miss Jane because she can't be here to say these things to my kids. But she has gifted me and I am so greatful for that. Yet how is it that she is gone?