I'm sorry you are in this situation. I hope you can get out safely and keep your daughter safe. As to your question about not being sure if you can be completely open with your T--I don't think we can answer that, but it sounds like from the small bit that you shared, that your T cares about you, your daughter, and your well-being. You might be projecting emotions onto her because of the situation, which would be usual, I should think. But it seems like you should have someone on your team, on your side, as you work through trying to leave. If your T can be a support to you, then I think that's a good thing. I know you are in a scary situation, but as you said, it is out of your hands now. I just hope that you are able to be with your daughter in safety. HUGS Kit