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Originally Posted by Calypso2632
I LOVE getting things like fresh flowers!! Or a card for no reason, a cute stuffed animal, a collectible, a trinket. All good things to do just to say I love you. Or an afternoon snuggle session. I sometimes go get him a single rose or a card. Or hand write a note. Thoughtful gestures are wonderful things. But I dont think most men no matter how wonderful they are are wired the same way we are as far as what they see as romantic.. just my view.. I tend to go buy my own flowers. I really enjoy them, know exactly what I like and what's in season. Or just want to see what the florist has. Plus it's nice!!   |
Thank you Calypso. You seem to really understand what I'm saying. Some people seem to think I'm ridiculous that I would like a nice gesture once in a while...something sweet and romantic that I would appreciate. I do somiliar things as yourself for him.
I do actually know a few female friends who are in relationships with men who do such romantic things without prompting. So that's why I wonder if it's a mismatch between my partner and me. I don't know.
Thank you again for your thoughts. I buy my own flowers too! Otherwise, I'd never have any!
