((((((((((kimmydawn)))))))))))

First, take a deep breath. It sounds like you are experiencing some burnt-out mommy syndrome. And rightfully so. Anyone would struggle with what you have to deal with, let alone someone with a medical condition and DID. You can do this!

Can you talk to your hubby? Let him know you are feeling overwhelmed? Your daughters appear to be old enough to handle a lot on their own. Slowly start making them do so. They may get mad at first, but they will thank you later. Tell them you can't help them now...in the future you might be able to again.

Once you have your priorities in order...turn everything down you don't want to do. You can do this. We'll help you all we can. We love you.