He was an extremely verbally abusive and toxic person. Everything and anything that went wrong was always because of me. I mean they were RIDICULOUS things he would blame me for. He use to complain to his friend about me, and she contacted me on facebook one day calling me "heartless". I ended up messaging her back telling her my side of everything. He went down to confront her about contacting me and when he found out I had told her all of this he said...

Ex: You told her all those lies!

Me: They weren't lies. It isn't my fault you choose to forget or deny the things you've done.

Ex: You ruined her marriage!

Me: I...ruined her marriage? She's a 50 + year old woman who use to cheat on her husband with you before we met. I ruined her marriage?

Ex: I went down there to confront her and YOU were the one that contacted her.

Me: First of all, she has been contacting me monthly with new facebook accounts for like a year. SHE contacted me.

Ex: Well her marriage is ruined and she is getting a divorce because of you.

I was some how to blame for ruining the marriage of a 50 something year old woman. He had went down there and contacted her husband. Yet I ruined her marriage.