S&C— “I also don't understand why asking someone if they want something makes something romantic now unromantic.“

What makes romance is when someone wants to take the initiative to do something that shows their loved one they are special.

I’ve been blessed with shows of affection from love interests for most all my life; cards, letters, flowers, jewelry, wine and dine and 69 . I felt they enjoyed doing what they did and loved seeing how it made me feel good.