I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, rukspc I agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could. You've been given some great advice in this thread. I hope you'll try to follow it. Your concerns seem very valid to me. Snowstorms are very dangerous. Your feelings are absolutely justified. I completely agree with CrystalGirlx. Can you go there before the snowstorm arrives and leave when it's over? That seems like the best solution to me. Otherwise, I don't think it's safe to go. Just tell your boyfriend that you're concerned for everyone's safety and that you'd love to go, but it may be too dangerous. Hopefully he'll understand. If he still wants to go, you can decide not to follow him. Hopefully he'll understand you're serious about this. I don't think this is something worth risking your life over it. I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this. It must be hard to disagree even with your boyfriend. Is there anyone else that it's going to the party that agrees with you? Perhaps if several people are going to complain about this, your boyfriend's brother will change his mind. I hope you'll be able to convince them. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. Please don't give up. I hope things will get better soon for you. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this