Dang. I'm sorry, Fuzzy Dear -- we're a lot to cope with sometimes; totally in our own heads and even when trying to be aware & sensitive to partner, we can remove ourselves to waaay more than arms lengths. ~le sigh~
In other words, we're a a pain in the touchis.

Lol I gotta say Crazyman and I had a hot spat which fortunately blew itself up on a gale of laughter. Went like this:

Crazyman: You aren't paying any attention to me and not talking to me and I'm feeling abandoned!
Me: ???WTF ??

CMan: You know exactly what I mean why didn't you talk to me about xyz and the house in IA and and and and besides that I hate it when you abcdesf.....

Me: How f888king dare you, back off and I mean NOW. Sorry about your insecurities; they're yours. So deal.

CMan: In otherwords go @#!$ myself right?

Me: In otherwords, you're picking a fight. Wanna fight?
CMan:YEAH!!!

Me:* Sticks out chin*, Trying to keep straight face:
" K. You start."
CMan: Oh dammit Chy...

(Uproarious laughter.)

So yeah

We've known each other too long and too well. We knew what we were getting when we signed up for this.

Heh.

xo,

Chyia, it is what it is and sometimes what it is, is a mess