I took the test and scored highest in:

Words of Affirmation
Actions don't always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, "I love you," are important – hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. Kind, encouraging, and positive words are truly life-giving.

Um definitely. My H is very good about telling me he loves me and giving complements but he also can get upset at times and say things that have shattered all of us.

We are compatible in the areas of quality time and physical touch (my scores were also high in these areas) but my spouse sucks in the area of gift giving and I have learned to expect/accept this. I value words of affirmation, quality time and touch more anyways.

All of the five love languages show we care. Perhaps we should try/make an effort to do them all whenever it is practical. You get what you give!

New Radicals - You Get What You Give