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Feb 24, 2019, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
No, no I have to disagree. Most toxic people that I see choose to be toxic and choose their victims due to their victims being kind and nice people with manners who they know won't turn toxic on them. They see an easy target.
My toxic HOA lady didn't turn toxic when we all needed her.. when there was one toxic person on the HOA but once we all got on to try to direct the ship... she turned toxic. Because she is hoping to get the rest of us to to control the toxic guy on the board for her. So she sees an opening for her power to manipulate the rest of us.
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In no way do I want to invalidate your experience. That was not my intent. I agree some people are just entirely toxic. But I do also think there is a tendency with some people to label every person there is conflict or disagreement with as toxic.
I see your point absolutely.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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